December is here! It’s time for holiday decorations, visiting with friends and neighbors and showing how grateful you are for those folks we didn’t choose, but love anyway: our families.
If you’ve recently moved to a new community in East Tennessee, the holidays can be a bit lonely. Your familiar streets and people are far away, and you haven’t yet made those deep connections that give you warm fuzzies this time of year. The good news is, this is the time of year that people are even more likely to welcome you with open arms! So read on to pick up a few tips on how to put yourself out there this holiday season, and start making your new town feel like your home.
If you’re feeling a bit lonely, chances are others are, too. Especially those who are down on their luck. Volunteer at local shelters. Find charities to give time, food or clothes to. Not only will you brighten someone’s day, but you’ll meet like-minded folks that could turn into lifelong friends! Check these places to find out when they’d welcome your help:
Join a gym
Gym classes are a great place to find folks who share your love of spin or yoga class! Plus, releasing endorphins and getting your body in a healthier state helps alleviate the stress of the holidays, making you happier, naturally.
Join a church
Church communities in our area are more than happy to open their arms to new folks in town. Try out a few and see which communities feel the most comfortable for you.
Join a class/learn a new skill/offer your own skills
The Lakeway Area is full of artists, dancers, readers, crafters, builders and more who like to share their love of their activities with others. Taking a class is a great way to put yourself out there with others who are looking to broaden their horizons. You can also offer to host a class, if you’re already an expert in weaving, or reading to little ones, for example. Start at the Rose Center to see what other artists in the Lakeway Area are up to.
Go to festivals and events
Festivals and street fairs are a great way to perk up your holiday spirits! Even if you’re just there for the window (or street booth) shopping, you never know what you’ll see or who you’ll meet to deepen your appreciation for your new home. To get you started, Christmas Downtown in Morristown is coming on December 15!
Introduce yourself to your neighbors
Don’t underestimate how a smile and a handshake can brighten someone’s day. We don’t spend enough time on face-to-face conversation these days, and sometimes new neighbors feel too intimidated or set in their own ways to come over and introduce themselves. Taking a friendly initiative to walk over and say “hi” might be the start of a beautiful friendship.
Start a food drive, or volunteer to do a little something extra at work or at your child’s school
If you have kids, making friends with other parents can make life so much easier! It’s nice to be able to let your kids play together while you enjoy a cup of coffee and talk about adult things—you know, something other than Elmo, potty training and Sophia the First. Oh, who are we kidding? You’ll end up talking about that stuff with other parents, too.
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